The day of a wedding is a big one for the bride and her family. Emotions run high, and there can be a lot of vulnerability and anxiety at play. Hair stylist Yocheved Gross and makeup artist Cami Esses have a very integral part in that big day. As they help the bride and her family look their best, they also know they have a significant impact on how their clients feel at their simchas.

With so many years of experience, and hundreds (if not thousands) of wedding days under their belts, Yocheved and Cami have seen it all. Here, they describe the many common instances that require an extra dose of sensitivity and love. For example, what happens when the daughter wants one style of hair or makeup and the mother wants something else? And how do they deal with an emotional, tearful bride or mom while they’re trying to do their work?

Learn more about the wedding day, some do’s and don’ts, and lots of helpful advice from these two highly experienced simcha artists.